Saturday, December 5, 2009

An Experiment in kindness....

It's Christmas time again and I've gotten the impression lately that a lot of people just aren't feeling it this year.I can't really blame anybody..The media begins pounding it into our heads as early as October that it's time to start shopping.....you have to give big gifts with all the bells and whistles....After awhile all we end up hearing is buy, buy, buy, and buy some more...It's depressing for most people the economy is falling and unemployment is up.  We can barely pay our bills yet alone shell out a lot of money for fancy gifts....It's stressful...Somewhere in all that stress we lose perspective of what Christmas is all about...We get depressed and some what selfish. It's tough, believe me I know.

Anyways, back to my train of thought, which I seemed to have detoured from....I was helping out a local charity collecting money for the needy this Christmas..The rules of the charity that I was helping are that we can't out right ask people for money but, hopefully our presence will encourage donations... So, the tactic I've come up with is greeting everyone that walks by..I tell them thank you if they donate and if they don't I still wish them a nice holiday season.  What I noticed is most people couldn't look me in the face or wouldn't even bother acknowledging that I'd even said anything to them....Upon further observation, I began to notice that most people weren't being kind or courteous to there fellow members of the human race..Nobody stopped to say hello, nobody  held a door for anyone, or did anything kind in general for anyone else. It was really sad to watch.

So, I've decided.......I want to encourage some random acts of kindness....How will I do this you might ask..Well, I've put a lot of thought and research into this and I think I've come up with a great idea. An idea for which I've created this blog.

I'm going to make up a few handmade ornaments. I will anonymously distribute these ornaments through out my town and a couple of neighboring towns. What I mean by distribute is I will leave the ornaments in various places for  people to find on their own. Along with the ornament I will also enclose a card informing the recipient that they received a random act of kindness. In return I would like them to do the following: perform a simple, random  act of kindness, visit this blog and let everyone know where they found the ornament and what random act of kindness they've performed, and tell us about any random acts of kindness they may have been witness too.

Now do I expect to bring about world piece and fill my town with people going about performing selfless acts for others.....No, I'm a realist.  I don't think either will happen but, it would be cool wouldn't it. I do, however, hope to put a smile on a stranger's face and possibliy encourage them to do the same.  As for the ornaments, they'll just serve as my little mark on the world and hopefully a reminder to their reciepents that it's okay to do something for a stanger.  If they did happen to do something for someone as a result of my ornament maybe it'll be suvonier to remind them of what they did for someone else.

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